The first primary reality is this:
When we encounter a situation or a person how do we judge them?
All of our judgments are reflected from the person across us as wavelengths; information in the form of frequencies that reach our brain.
And our brain decodes this data. Now some of you are going to say ‘flesh brain’, ‘neuron brain’ etc. Waves decode waves my friends!
What are your judgments and evaluations based on?
All of the information that comes from outside to you.